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What will you do when you achieve you dreams and ambitions? How would you spend your time? How would your life change? I’m sure you’ve only given it a passing thought. Once you know that this is possible (use me as your example) the first step is to completely believe in your dream and then work towards making it happen. 

My dream was always to be able to help people and bring happiness into the lives of others and few years ago I felt a million miles away from my goal and felt as if my life was positively not directed towards my dreams or my purpose. I had gone from a childhood of poverty and racial abuse, being a mother since the age of 8 & living my adult life balancing a carer with a demanding 16 hour day job in the city, a terminally ill loved one at home and a feeling of being trapped on both ends (at work and at home). 

At a certain point a few years ago, I decided enough was enough and wanted to try and change my life. On my journey of change, I discovered that my past was actually my fortune – many successful people have a sad story to tell but have turned tragedy into opportunity. I modelled them and believed I could achieve my dreams and the outcome is my reality today. 

Today I’m the owner of a growing business, a motivational speaker, a published author, a master trainer and an extremely happy person in all respects –and most importantly to me, I’m now living my dream of helping people and using my own learning and experience combined with known tools and techniques, helping them change their lives just like Jill Has!! (That’s me JILLian HASlam!!) 

You could start your own business, be your own boss, provide your family with more than you’ve ever dreamt you could & get out of the rat race, or whatever else it is that you dream of achieving, the question is. How badly do you want it?? 

You have nothing holding you back except yourself! You could do the same. Every pain or experience you’ve ever had can be eliminated or used towards your success. All you need to do is believe and then channel your efforts toward making it happen. 

Life is short, why live it on a giant wheel of misery when we can turn it into a life of happiness, and success. I’ve done it and do believe that anyone could do the same, the question is, are you ready to make the change and a create life and not just an existence?? 

The only one who could help you, is you yourself. The decision is yours! You are never given a wish without being given the power to make it come true. I did not only believe that but used it and created the life I have always dreamed of. You could do it too, the question is – do you believe that this is happening to you and do you wish to change it – if you continue to do what you are doing, you will continue to get what you are getting. Change your life and change your world!! 

If you're interested in knowing more about how this could work for you subscribe to this blog which I will update regularly talking about various aspects of the things you can do to help change your life just like Jill Has. If you would like to discuss your specific circumstances and would like some help in creating your own roadmap to change why not go to my site at www.helpyourassociates.com and register you interest there.

My dream was always to be able to help people and bring happiness into the lives of others and few years ago I felt a million miles away from my goal and felt as if my life was positively not directed towards my dreams or my purpose.

I had gone from a childhood of poverty and racial abuse, being a mother since the age of 8 & living my adult life balancing a career with a demanding 16 hour day job in the city, a terminally ill loved one at home and a feeling of being trapped on both ends (at work and at home).

At a certain point a few years ago, I decided enough was enough and wanted to try and change my life. On my journey of change, I discovered that my past was actually my fortune – many successful people have a sad story to tell but have turned tragedy into opportunity. I modeled them and believed I could achieve my dreams and the outcome is my reality today.

Today I’m the owner of a growing business, a motivational speaker, a published author, a master trainer and an extremely happy person in all respects –and most importantly to me, I’m now living my dream of helping people and using my own learning and experience combined with known tools and techniques, helping them change their lives just like Jill Has!! (That’s me JILLian HASlam!!)

You could start your own business, be your own boss, provide your family with more than you’ve ever dreamt you could & get out of the rat race, or whatever else it is that you dream of achieving, the question is. How badly do you want it??

You have nothing holding you back except yourself! You could do the same. Every pain or experience you’ve ever had can be eliminated or used towards your success. All you need to do is believe and then channel your efforts toward making it happen.

Life is short, why live it on a giant wheel of misery when we can turn it into a life of happiness, and success. I’ve done it and do believe that anyone could do the same, the question is, are you ready to make the change and a create life and not just an existence??

The only one who could help you, is you yourself. The decision is yours! You are never given a wish without being given the power to make it come true. I did not only believe that but used it and created the life I have always dreamed of. You could do it too, the question is – do you believe that this is happening to you and do you wish to change it – if you continue to do what you are doing, you will continue to get what you are getting. Change your life and change your world!!

If youre interested in knowing more about how this could work for you subscribe to this blog which I will update regularly talking about various aspects of the things you can do to help change your life just like Jill Has.

If you would like to discuss your specific circumstances and would like some help in creating your own roadmap to change why not go to my site at www.helpyourassociates.com and register you interest there.

When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest, if you must, but don't you quit.

Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about,
When he might have won had he stuck it out;
Don't give up though the pace seems slow--
You may succeed with another blow.

Often the goal is nearer than,
It seems to a faint and faltering man,
Often the struggler has given up,
When he might have captured the victor's cup,
And he learned too late when the night slipped down,
How close he was to the golden crown.

Success is failure turned inside out--
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems so far,
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit--
It's when things seem worst that you must not quit.

- Author unknown

When you get what you want in your struggle for pelf,
And the world makes you King for a day,
Then go to the mirror and look at yourself,
And see what that guy has to say.

For it isn't your Father or Mother or Wife,
Who judgement upon you must pass.
The feller whose verdict counts most in your life
Is the guy staring back from the glass.

He'sthe feller to please, never mind all the rest,
For he's with you clear up to the end,
And you've passed your most dangerous, difficult test
If the guy in the glass is your friend.

You may be like Jack Horner and "chisel" a plum,
And think you're a wonderful guy,
But the man in the glass says you're only a bum
If you can't look him straight in the eye.

Youcan fool the whole world down the pathway of years,
And get pats on the back as you pass,
But your final reward will be heartaches and tears
If you've cheated the guy in the glass.

©DaleWimbrow, 1934. 

“This little poem was once written for me and inspired me to be speaking my heart out. I hope it helps you to do the same. We all have a voice and just need to know how to use it.”

Once upon a time in a land far far away,
There was a beautiful baby girl who brightened up everyone’s day.

When she grew up she discovered the strangest thing,
The melodies of Angels this beautiful Princess could sing.

As we all know in fairytales so true,
An evil witches pot this poison did brew.

Flying into the castle with an evil laugh,
She tipped the poison vile into the princess’s bubble bath.

For many years after the Princess didn’t sing,
For when she opened her mouth, out came nothing.

The people of Feckeneckle became angry and sad,
They knew without her voice their land had turned bad.

As she sipped on her wine and gazed into the rain,
She knew that only her voice could end all the pain.

Bursting with belief she had destroyed the curse,
She ran to her people and began to rehearse.

Bright in the sun she stood for all to admire,
Now that she had her voice she could begin to inspire.

Great songs of magic flooded the skies with love,
Even the Angels listened from Heaven above.

From that day on our princess would only smile,
A birdie told her there was nothing in that vile.

Feckeneckles people held her close to their heart,
They knew that never again would her special gift part.

-- Natasha Pieters

“What’s the reason you haven’t yet achieved what you want? It’s not your parents, it’s not your friends, it’s not your spouse, and it’s not your ‘bad luck’… I t’s not the world’s economic situation, it’s not the competition, it’s not your boss… and it’s not the president… The reason is YOU… To be more exact, the reason is in your mind… and the things you do everyday…” –MIT scientist Stuart Lichtman

When you do not, or no longer know, or have struggled to overcome and to banish fear from your consciousness – you become fearless.

Likewise, when you do not know how to get whatever you’ve dreamed of, you just keep dreaming. And hence you keep creating, because when you focus on something that doesn’t exist, you actually create it (examples: Einstein; The Wright Brothers; Walt Disney, Alexander Graham Bell & others).

Although change is inevitable, personal growth is always a matter of choice, a deeply convicted personal decision. If you doubt your power, you give power to your doubt. To the extent that you let fear guide you, that is the extent to which you let other people or other energies inside you take you over.

When you think, “I’m not good enough; I can’t do it,” you are giving power to what you can’t do. Or won’t do. Which is more often the case. Beside being fearful and doubtful, we are lazy. “Let’s stay together for the sake of the children,” frequently translates to fear of what lurks after a life change as crucial as divorce. We cling to what we know out of fear of the unknown.

Jill Has known the gravest and severest forms of fear and dread. Abuse, starvation, abject poverty—yet Jill Has learned how to let go of her fear and let self-knowledge guide her into a new life.

What then will it take for you to realise that you can create anything you desire? Or how low must you fall before you realise that your thoughts and beliefs are forcing your behaviour to sabotage your very existence? This is what leads you to live a life without reason, or, in some cases, even to self harm.

To change like Jill Has does not take intellect, wealth, power, poverty or a particular brand of culture. It just takes YOU! And just as this gift—the Gift of You—has been taken away either by your circumstances, or your past, or your fears and inhibations, or sometimes even by the people around you, it can be restored with knowledge and application.